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Friday, September 28, 2018

Birthday Adventures: Pinot's Palette

So this is going to be the second of a whole bunch of birthday posts.  I reflected on turning 32 and all of the changes through this past year here.
But now I'm ready to talk about the celebrations.
I find planning big parties pretty stressful so I'm much more inclined to having smaller mini events with different friends or groups of friends depending on who's available when.

This Saturday, I spent most of the day being a responsible adult.  I alternated between resting and cleaning from 8 in the morning till 7pm.  There was a lot to clean. Dishes, vacuuming, dusting, cleaning the stove and the microwave and the bathroom.  Normally, Baros would help me but he's had a crazy schedule lately so I decided to take care of it and give him a little reprieve (normally he cleans wayyyy more than I do). I also rested a lot!  I was so pooped from the week and lack of sleep and back pain so I just took blocks of time to rest.

However, after spending all day indoors I needed to do something.  Luckily for me, my friend Danielle was free and wanted to do something.  We decided to go to a Paint Nite event at a Pinot's Palette which was close to home.
All of the art on the walls
We met there for the 8pm class to paint a colorful Eiffel Tower scene.  It was very pop-art-esque, fun and beautiful.
Here's the painting we were trying to mimic!








Danielle brought us a bottle of white wine and we put on our smocks and grabbed some
stemless glasses (I was worried Danielle would knock them down/potentially break them).  I poured us our wine and we settled in at our canvases.

I love that Pinot's is a studio so you're surrounded by colorful art.  They even take the time to label your seat for you so you don't have to worry about getting separated from your friends (when you make your reservation online, they ask who, if anyone, you want to sit with).
Ready to paint









Quarter Way through 


Our instructor and her assistant were lovely.  They were so nice and helpful.  Our instructor took us step by step slowly through the painting. It was a great way to spend 2 hours.



















Each person worked at their own pace so even if you were slower than the person next to you it didn't matter.  And I love the fact that you can kind of manipulate your painting the way you want.  So even though you're following instructions, you don't/can't do it exactly the way the instructor does.  For example the sky in our painting was mostly dark blue and black.  I purposefully ignored instructions and made my sky more of the pink/purple color and the purple.  I wanted more of a sunset feel rather than a twilight feel.  And for our Eiffel tower, I made mine a little thinner and shorter as well.  There were people who followed instructions better and worse for a variety of reasons.   But in the end, it didn't matter how much or how little your painting looked like the original.
I wasn't loving it yet






















About half way through:  this was our
instructor's painting... 
Mine!  I was finally really liking my creation at this stage!
The circle of stars really brought things together!


It's all about the process.  I know some people get upset when their paintings don't end up looking like the original or it's "worse" than the original, but it really doesn't matter.  I like that you don't have to be "artistic" to achieve one of these paintings.  You can be a complete beginner or an advanced painter and still create something lovely.  The key is not comparing yourself.  What you create is beautiful.  The process is beautiful itself.  Painting can be so relaxing, especially when you throw friends and wine into the mix.
I was a little ahead so I walked
 around taking pictures for
a bit, waiting for the paint to dry!


















I had such a good time mixing my paints and applying paint to canvas even when I wasn't sure what the end result would be.  At a certain point, I gave up on thinking/worrying about it and let myself really have fun with the process.
At the end of the night, I was quite proud of what I had created.  But I also really enjoyed what everyone had painted as well.  The whole class of us (I guess around 20 people) did phenomenal jobs no matter the level.  We took a couple of group photos with cheesy grins.  It's such a fun experience and I can't wait to bring Baros with me one day.

After the group photo, Danielle and I, touched up our paintings a little more and then took some pictures of just the two of us in our colorful surroundings.

Selfie time!!
I was so grateful for her fun company and the idea to do a paint nite in the first place.  I have a feeling we'll be back at Pinot's sooner rather than later! 





Wednesday, September 26, 2018

Birthday Adventures: A year in review...

So today is my birthday.  I am officially 32 years old.

This has been such a crazy whirlwind year with so many changes that it's hard to take stock.
My 31st birthday
31. Last year, I turned 31.
On my birthday, I was still working as a teacher and my students celebrated my birthday with me.  I celebrated my birthday 5 or 6 times. One for each class and then with Baros and friends too.









Birthday Flowers from Gracie




I'm so lucky I have so many amazing people in my life and that I was able to have so many amazing celebrations.











My birthday fruit plate







Birthday dinner!

In October, less than a month after turning 31, I changed jobs.  I found a new team to be a part of. I've made some amazing new friends.
Later that month, we celebrated our first Halloween together. I dressed up at work and took entertaining pictures with my coworkers and then came home to zombify Baros and we went to a beer garden in Hoboken for food and some laughter.
My whole amazing team 



Celebrating in Hoboken
Last August, we got engaged and at 31, we got married.  Not only was I lucky enough to have one wedding, but we had two.
Our wedding photo shoot








Last November, we got married in a small court wedding, surrounded by some family and friends.  We had a mini photo shoot as engagement/wedding pictures on Boulevard East overlooking the Hudson River and New York City.  We had amazing Turkish food in one our favorite Turkish Restaurants.  We laughed and our friend read our futures in the grounds of Turkish coffee.

And afterwards, we went to NYC for more drinks and love.  We went to Fat Cat in lower Manhattan for shuffle board and lovely music.

At Fat Cat
We came home and crashed together for the first time as a married couple.
We celebrated our first Thanksgiving together at my mother's place with friends.
Me and my girls right before Christmas









We celebrated our first Christmas together with stockings filled with gifts and presents opened first thing in the morning while still in pjs (and yes... I may have wrapped some presents that morning).  We laughed and enjoyed the low key vibes of the day.
Christmas Day with the Mamma 
Our first Christmas Tree!
Beautiful Bryant Park 


We celebrated our anniversary at the restaurant where we had our first date.
We celebrated our first New Years together in Brooklyn with friends and friends of friends.  We celebrated in joy and hope for the new year.
New Year's Eve Antics

Goofing around with my baby

We low key celebrated Valentine's day.  Roses and dinner. It's all we needed.
We had the lowest key celebration of his birthday ever a week before our wedding.  Next year will be more epic.
We planned a big wedding and spent more money than we intended (thank you wedding industry).  I made bouquets and centerpieces and hair pieces and various other decorations for our day.  I stressed. We stressed together. And it was all worth it.




We had a fairy tale day in the woods surrounded by friends and family: some of our favorite people in the world.







The bouquet I made

















We said our vows and tears filled our eyes.
I tried to speak Turkish without stuttering. I failed but the meaning was there.
A beautiful moment

We sang, we danced. We had a beautiful day and evening.
Our Beautiful friends
The perfect cake
The centerpieces I made








It was perfect and I wouldn't change a thing.









A week later, one of my best friends had her first child, making me a very happy auntie!

Then, I started this blog and we went on our mini moon!
Miami mini moon!
We have celebrated both of our brothers' birthdays and tried to relax.
brother birthday celebration!
I've participated in bachelorette parties and bridal showers and been a bridesmaid in my friends wedding.















The adventures in life have abounded.
So much has changed and I wouldn't have it any other way.
And now, I'm one year older.
I'm 32 and I can't wait to see what adventures this new year will bring us.